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BLACK GADDY BLOG
Nov 275 min read
Everyone Loves an Old Black Man!
Ya know, I’m not going to sit here and complain. Yes, America is one of those countries that throws its aged down the garbage disposal...
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Nov 129 min read
Teddy Grahams, Part I
What is our obsession with light-skin-did dudes (a.k.a.Teddy Grahams)? Back in the late 2010s, I worked at what they called a Community...
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Nov 127 min read
Latino MAGA Men
I had to leapfrog over some other things I was planning on writing to strike while the iron is still hot on this issue. Trump made...
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Nov 119 min read
Luther Vandross
Dear Black Gaddies. Can we talk about Luther Vandross if only for a sec.? This is a timely entry because by the time this is published,...
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Nov 115 min read
Black Lives Madder
Where did BLM go wrong? Back when I was living in Arizona earlier this year, I found a Black Lives Matter t-shirt at Savers, took it...
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Nov 1119 min read
Frantic Romantic
What’s the best relationship model for a Black Gaddy? Part I Love Will Tear Us Apart. Tainted Love. Love Makes No Sense. Love Stinks....
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Nov 76 min read
Religion and the Black Daddy, Part I
Go Spell Heavenly stuff makes no sense to me. I mean if God is perfect and made us humans in His image, why are we so incredibly flawed...
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Nov 59 min read
Are Gay Black Men Turning Against Gay Black Men?
I don’t really date Black men anymore. They’re just too complicated.” (T-Bone, Black American from Minnesota.) “All Black men want to...
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Oct 2910 min read
Black Sugar Daddy
“We are living in a material world, and I am a material girl.” -Madonna, 1984 Part I Black Sugar Daddy A question that has plagued older...
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Oct 296 min read
Sugar Daddy
Quote from a cranky old queen: Getting old is a bitter pill to swallow. A Quote from me: Just a spoonful of sugar (boy) helps the...
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Oct 910 min read
Medellin and LGBTQ
Is it safe here? Naw, it ain’t. I’m not even going to front on this issue. If you play around with your life in Medellin, someone...
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