“Pardon me for living, but this is my world, too. I can't help, what's cool to us might be strange to you.” -Prince (“Bold Generation”,...

As a Funny Black (FUN-B) living in New York City in the 1990s, my wardrobe choices could sometimes be an issue as some Black people were...

Ya know, I’m not going to sit here and complain.  Yes, America is one of those countries that throws its aged down the garbage disposal...

What is our obsession with light-skin-did dudes (a.k.a.Teddy Grahams)? Back in the late 2010s, I worked at what they called a Community...

I had to leapfrog over some other things I was planning on writing to strike while the iron is still hot on this issue.  Trump made...

Dear Black Gaddies.  Can we talk about Luther Vandross if only for a sec.? This is a timely entry because by the time this is published,...

Where did BLM go wrong? Back when I was living in Arizona earlier this year, I found a Black Lives Matter t-shirt at Savers, took it...

What’s the best relationship model for a Black Gaddy? Part I Love Will Tear Us Apart.  Tainted Love.  Love Makes No Sense. Love Stinks....

The weekends are a time to forget about the grind and relax a little bit.  And that’s exactly what Jaxon does here. Oral things are very...

Go Spell Heavenly stuff makes no sense to me.  I mean if God is perfect and made us humans in His image, why are we so incredibly flawed...

I don’t really date Black men anymore.  They’re just too complicated.”   (T-Bone, Black American from Minnesota.) “All Black men want to...

Parque Arví is located right outside of Medellin and is an expansive ecological natural reserve known for its lush landscapes, diverse...

“We are living in a material world, and I am a material girl.” -Madonna, 1984 Part I Black Sugar Daddy A question that has plagued older...

Quote from a cranky old queen:   Getting old is a bitter pill to swallow.   A Quote from me:   Just a spoonful of sugar (boy) helps the...

Jaxon currently works as the Quality Control Manager in Friko, one of the biggest companies in Colombia.  Friko is the national company...

In October of 2024, Jaxon Quavo took a much needed vacation to the region known as Urabá, Colombia. Not only is this section of the...

So many people come to Colombia and are shocked to learn that, yes, there are Black Colombians.  There are many, many, many Black people...

Is it safe here?   Naw, it ain’t.  I’m not even going to front on this issue.  If you play around with your life in Medellin, someone...