Ya know, I’m not going to sit here and complain.  Yes, America is one of those countries that throws its aged down the garbage disposal...

What is our obsession with light-skin-did dudes (a.k.a.Teddy Grahams)? Back in the late 2010s, I worked at what they called a Community...

I had to leapfrog over some other things I was planning on writing to strike while the iron is still hot on this issue.  Trump made...

Dear Black Gaddies.  Can we talk about Luther Vandross if only for a sec.? This is a timely entry because by the time this is published,...

Where did BLM go wrong? Back when I was living in Arizona earlier this year, I found a Black Lives Matter t-shirt at Savers, took it...

What’s the best relationship model for a Black Gaddy? Part I Love Will Tear Us Apart.  Tainted Love.  Love Makes No Sense. Love Stinks....

Go Spell Heavenly stuff makes no sense to me.  I mean if God is perfect and made us humans in His image, why are we so incredibly flawed...

I don’t really date Black men anymore.  They’re just too complicated.”   (T-Bone, Black American from Minnesota.) “All Black men want to...

“We are living in a material world, and I am a material girl.” -Madonna, 1984 Part I Black Sugar Daddy A question that has plagued older...

Quote from a cranky old queen:   Getting old is a bitter pill to swallow.   A Quote from me:   Just a spoonful of sugar (boy) helps the...

Is it safe here?   Naw, it ain’t.  I’m not even going to front on this issue.  If you play around with your life in Medellin, someone...